Sometimes coincidences happen, then sometimes God places us into situations. How do we know the difference? I have been asked if I really believe that God would take time to do simple things in this everyday life just for me, and I reply, yes. The fact is, God is involved in even the little things in our lives. There has been many instances in my life, as I have mentioned in a previous post, where I strongly have felt that HIS touch affected my life. Why would God play a very minor part in my life when He does not save millions of other lives?? All I do know is that there will come a time in our lives when we will look back and see how the very tiniest parts of the puzzle all fits together for HIS purpose.
One example I can mention, is how I became a big brother in the Big Brothers and Sisters Program. I had been interested in the program, being a divorced man with no dependents and time on my hands, I had a paternal yearning in my soul. Sadly, my one child, a great God-centered daughter, was given the extreme bad news that it would be very unlikely that she could ever have children. So…, my desire to be a grandfather proved just as unlikely. I was not seeking a grandchild, nor a replacement; however, I did feel that I could be a productive mentor. I asked my daughter and some friends what they thought of my desire, and they all agreed that I could be a good example for a boy to follow.
So…, about two years ago I was overjoyed when my pastor mentioned opportunities in this program. I soon after, sent a message to him and explained my interests. Unfortunately, he never responded. Possibly he was unsure of my character because of a situation with missions that I was involved in, which cause a rift between me and one of the church leaders. A situation which I feel I was mostly guiltless, but certainly not totally. Anyway, he simple never responded. And without his information, I had no idea how to proceed. So….., months went by and I simply dropped any ideas in that time. Then a friend wanted me to do a favor for him, a favor that would lead me with a couple of miles from where the church that I had been attending was located. Yes, in those months, my church presence was gone as well. I was frustrated by deceptions which I had encountered from some members of the church body. When I went to the location needed to help my friend, I realized that church service was soon to start, and I felt strongly that I should attend. That evening turned out to be the second time in the past 1 1/2 years that the Big Brothers Organization was mentioned. The pastor didn’t mention it, however a staff member made a brief presentation about it. I contacted him later that week. After a couple months and after the usual background checks and reference checks, I became a Big Brother. Coincidence????
I am the only Christian influence in his life…., I am, and no I am not being arrogant, but I am probably the only positive influence as well. Without me, his life could easily be steered wrong, and without me his knowledge of the Lord would be almost nil. We have now been together for a year and a half, and it all has been mostly positive.
If my Christian friend didn’t call me at that specific time for me to do a favor, I would not have been in church that night, and I would have never become a Big Brother. Yes, it is only a simple little thing in the overall aspect of life in this world…….. Or is it? Where will his life lead with my subtle guidance?